10 Lessons I Learnt From Starting My Own Business ~ Ten On Tuesday

This is what I posted three years ago, when I'd just started my store. 10 Lessons I learnt from starting my own business. Three years later, as I go through this list again, I realize that most of these points still hold true, while for some, let's just say "I've become wiser with age". So re-blogging this post with the changes highlighted in green.

Over the course of my very new and still-very-brief 3-year-long entrepreneurial journey, I've learnt some important lessons. While most of these apply to entrepreneurship in general, a few are specific to small-scale retail business only. Journaling them here, as I'm sure I will enjoy going through them some day in the future.

  1. Every single morning, especially in winters, there WILL be a few minutes when you will ask yourself - "Why did I have to start this business when I could comfortably work from my home?" But after you spend your first summer at your store, in the sticky heat, with all the mosquitoes and various other kinds of bugs, you'll realize that winters were a piece of cake!

  2. You will soon realize that doing all the domestic chores (viz. cleaning, dishes, laundry etc.) on your own is much faster than waiting indefinitely for the maid to show up! But if you DO get a maid who comes on time and doesn't take unscheduled leaves, then there is nothing like it!

  3. Fast food, take-aways and eat-outs will no longer tempt you. On the contrary, you will crave solid home-cooked food. Especially if your body is still recuperating from serious illness. Even the tea-time biscuits will gradually lose their charm.

  4. Those meal-time movie sessions with your Dad will soon become a thing of the past! (Those good ol' days! Siggghhhhh!) But, if you keep your laptop stocked-up with some movies, you might get to watch them at the shop, when business is slow. (Which is definitely bound to happen whenever holidays fall close to weekends! Do all business-people hate holidays as much as I do?)

  5. You will become "brutal" at prioritizing! Where to spend money first, what expenses to postpone. Even at home, your "to-do-list" will be numbered! (Preparing the day's meals is STILL my current "number one" priority! You really can't do much through the day if you haven't taken care of the meals first and got them out of your way.)

  6. You will realize that the retail business comes with a serious social obligation. Once you open a shop, you simply cannot take an unscheduled off any time you please. It can completely disrupt the entire day's schedule of your customer! However, you CAN change your schedule completely, if you allow for a brief transition period to inform your customers, and put up prominent notices about the change. Oh, and if you don't keep making changes repeatedly!

  7. Your work hours in the evening will stretch further and further, until you start returning home so late that all you have time left to do is to make the chapatis for dinner, eat, and sleep! In fact, very soon you will find yourself watching "excerpts" of your favorite TV show - Dance India Dance - in "news updates", during lunch break! (LOL! I'm exaggerating that bit! There are no D.I.D. updates in the news these days... it's all just politics mostly.) But, after a few months of this late-night schedule, the stress will start showing in your body and in your productivity, and you'll be forced to cut-back to a healthier work routine, even if it comes at a loss of good business.

  8. Socializing will soon be restricted to phone conversations, whatsapp interactions, and Facebook chats, and even those will be interspersed with loads of "customer-breaks"! And personal emails that were once-upon-a-time replied to within 24 hours, will now sit in your inbox for days! And even after three years, you cannot find a way to change this. Bottomline: Small-scale retail business leaves you with no social life.

  9. You will still not be able to differentiate between weekdays and weekends, as previously, each day was like a holiday, and now each day is working! Only till you realize that you are not a machine, and that you NEED at least one weekly off, even if it makes some of your customers unhappy.

  10. Every single day, there will be at least one customer whose smile and heart-felt thanks will make you feel glad that you opened this shop! Despite the less-than-ideal working conditions. Despite the shoplifters (very rare, but very real nonetheless). Despite those handful of uncivilized people who believe it is their right to be rude to shop-owners. (No really! A shop is a great place to observe human psychology at work.)

Dad always said that small-scale retail business is tough job, and I can see why now. There's just not enough mental stimulation. Nothing new to learn. But I think I STILL quite enjoy it... at least most of the time. Perhaps that's because I'm not just selling products, I'm also doing creative stuff here. I have plenty of working space, good lighting, well-organized storage space, all the craft material and other resources I might need. AND... MOST IMPORTANTLY... I get to step out of my house and interact with some humans every day! Especially kids.

Another reason could be That's probably the main reason for me sticking with my shop for so long. The fact that most of my customers are children, and it's usually a delight interacting with kids. (Read this if you haven't already: When Kids go Shopping... Alone!) Their simple innocence gives you an entirely different perspective on life, doesn't it? You realize that life is not as complex as adults make it out to be.

Here's more in "Ten-On-Tuesday"!

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Shilpa Garg said...

Agree with all the 10 lessons you shared. Loosing track of weekdays and weekends is what I miss since KG started his business venture. Wishing you the very best in your entrepreneurial journey, Kads :)

Rajlakshmi said...

You go girl \.../ so happy to hear about your business... Wish you my very best :)

Chicky a.k.a. Kaddu said...

@ Shilpa & Rajlakshmi - Thanks girls! :)

Cathy Graham said...

Enjoyed reading your list, Chicky. Must be challenging at times to have your own store. I admire you looking for the positive when it's not always fun with the heat, rude customers, etc. Wish I could come visit your store but Canada is a bit too far away. Darn!

Chicky Kadambari said...

Hi Cathy! Yes, some of the customers do tend to cause trouble, but most of them are really polite and patient. I love interacting with them during whatever few minutes they spend at my shop. It's mainly the heat and the summer insects that really get on my nerves! I would so love to have you visit me and my shop! Ahhh! So many bloggers from our BAR group that I want to meet! Maybe some day... :D

tulika singh said...

I love your 'shop' posts Chicky. I think I've said this before - I adore stationery shops (next to book shops) and I love to hear how you're managing yours. I remember that piece you mentioned about kids shopping alone - That truly is the best part of your job. However, I do also see how much hard work goes into it, specially if you're handling it all on your own. Kudos to you.

Ls said...

These are some very practical lessons learned. It is good to be independent and keeping on 're inventing oneself. Happy Anniversary and keep moving ahead..

Rachna said...

Have been in those shoes. Starting your own business really drains you of your time.

Sid @ iwrotethose.com said...

Well, I'm not sure if I can term myself as an entrepreneur, but I find so many interesting takeaways from the 10 lessons you shared.
I do enjoy your 'store stories' :)

Chicky Kadambari said...

Thanks, Tulika! It is some experience, that's for sure! And yes, kids are definitely the best part!

Chicky Kadambari said...

"Reinventing oneself". So necessary to keep growing and to keep learning. Thank you, Lata!

Chicky Kadambari said...

True that, Rachna, but it also comes with the sharpest learning curve!

Chicky Kadambari said...

'Store stories', Sid? I like that! :D
Well, 3 years with my own business, and I still don't feel like calling myself an 'entrepreneur'. 'Proprietor' sounds old-fashioned, but so much more grounded, doesn't it?

Roshan Radhakrishnan said...

Some points do strike a chord as a doctor (the yearning for a basic home cooked meal, the hours slowly extending beyond the regular time period, definitely the new form of socializing). One thing that definitely does make a difference for me too is the odd smile at the end of the day from a patient who feels he or she is better now thanks to our efforts.

sulekkha said...

Great lessons shared :) I know how draining starting and running your own business is, I did it for 5 years before calling it quits. You are lucky to have kids as customers, they brighten the day with their smiles. best wishes for your journey and lots of success.

Chicky Kadambari said...

Hey Doc! As an alien, I do believe that gratitude can yet save this world.

Chicky Kadambari said...

Hi Sulekha! You're so right! It is getting kinda draining on me too. If a genie were to grant me a wish right now, I'd just ask for 24 hours of uninterrupted blissful sleep!

Geetika Gupta said...

I've read your stories on your shop and have loved them, whatever you share about it. And these are such perky lessons... loved reading all of them Chicky!

All the best for your business ahead!


Sanch Writes said...

Good lessons there...always a tough gig starting your own business. Kudos to you for keeping it going well. Most important I think is the need to take a break as your body and mind both need it! :)

Parul said...

I am so inspired by the fact that you run a store for kids (mainly) and it's so much of hard work. There will be lessons as you adjust and with time. :)

Chicky Kadambari said...

Thank you, Geets! :)

Chicky Kadambari said...

True that, Sanch. That's probably the most difficult part of being a store owner, I guess... you don't get any leaves!

Chicky Kadambari said...

Oh yes, Parul... whenever we attempt something new, we start on a new learning adventure, right?

Menaka Bharathi said...

I agree with all the Ten points you have mentioned here Kadu! It is like everytime it is you who need to push yourself, no one is going to do that for you. people around are waiting for you to have a fall in your business and come around to have some consoling time. sometimes I too feel why did I ever perceive something like starting a business instead of havng fun like many others.

Chicky Kadambari said...

True, Menaka. You need immense reserves of self motivation to work your own business. And the desire to keep learning. And making lemonade out of lemons that get thrown your way.

Ankita Sharma said...

I have my on startup too and I can relate to some of these points! nice post :)

Chicky Kadambari said...

Hey thanks for visiting, Ankita! :D
What's your startup about?

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