Sunday, August 2, 2009

New Rules of "The GAME"!

Once upon a time, relationships used to be simple and straightforward. Once upon a time, men and women were honest to each other about their feelings. Once upon a time, there was acceptance and understanding; there was caring and sharing.

Today, relationships are twisted and devious. Today, relationships are just feathers in your cap... the more the merrier... just a means to give a boost to your abnormally inflated ego. Today, there is only deceit and apathy.

Once upon a time, "I love you" meant a "promise"... a promise to always be there for you... a promise to always protect you and stand by you. Today, it's only a bunch of meaningless empty words.

I'm not very good at expressing feelings, but luckily, I found this girl in Bloggersville who is! And in her post "The Women who give the good ones a bad name", she says exactly what I would have said if I had been capable of putting my emotions into words.

. . .

Never say "I Love You" if you don't.

Seven years ago, I said the above to someone... and today, I repeat this... for anybody who might be reading this post.

Picture Credit: kaddu

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Once upon a time, there was commitment and fidelity.

I wish I was born during that time!

P.S. - By "relationships", in this particular post, I don't mean any platonic relationships -- parent-child, siblings, friends, etc. I don't even mean casual sex partners. I'm only talking about "proper relationships" between man & woman (Or even man-man or woman-woman; I'm not biased against them you see!)... that start with a formal "proposal" and consist of some serious courtship, extending over a considerable period of time.

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26 comments:

ZB said...

It still means the same to me. I still mean it every time i say that to my wife. Its more than a promise, its telling her to TRUST me. I will be there every time you need me.Just a murmur away....

:)..In case you are gone say CHO CHWEET, Thank you in advance.;D

Shobhit said...

Guess what.... ? Just been thinking over the 'new rules' before seeing this post from you.

Been trying really really hard to understand what actually does go around inside certain people's minds regarding relationships.

Your second paragraph just about sums it up. I think I'd better put a separate post on this.

By the way, it makes me feel really relieved at not having been anywhere even close to such territory... :)

Amit Gupta said...

hmm..quite true act....

cya around!
Amit

Kaddu said...

ZB:
Naah! I'm not the "Cho-Chweet" kinda girl! But I will say you are a true romantic at heart! :D
That was very well put btw!

Kaddu said...

Second photograph? Ek hi to hai ??? :-/
When r u coming on chat btw?

Kaddu said...

The above comment was for Shobhit.

And this one is for...
HR:
Thinking of writing a story along these lines? :D Waise bhi you always write depressing sad ending stories... he he! :p

Amit Gupta said...

hehe...my last story was an happy ending one..u missed that ..not my prob..uc if u wanna read only sad ones!

no i was nt thinking of any stories....i have put them off till my Teaching period ends on 17 aug...stories take a lot of time to write, will get back then!

Siddhesh 'Ravan' Kabe said...

If you ask me...all the values and virtues are still present in the current world. It just takes a lot of work and mehenat to search for the true love, which is lacking in todays world.
In a million years only there are few love stories that survive the test of time.:)
Right??

P.s. and hey, thanks for following, feels nice...:D

ani_aset said...

Aah that is one good post..and a great pic to go with..love the lines

As the Mind Meanders said...

Kaddu...

For every Romeo... time gave us a Casanova...

They always co-existed... but dont be pessimistic girl... commitment and fidelity is still alive today... dont let a few idiots get you down...

Kaddu said...

HR:
Yupp I still have a few pending posts to catch up with, in my Google Reader.

Kaddu said...

SiD:
Thanks for the add on orkut! Hope to know more abt u!

Kaddu said...

ani:
I used to collect a lot of random quotes and pics doing the rounds on emails earlier. This picture was created in photoshop using a part of that collection! :D

Kaddu said...

ATMM:
That was a brilliant quote dude! "For every Romeo... time gave us a Casanova..."
Loved it! Very well said!

♥ÐÅyÐяєÅмє®♥ said...

don't be so 17th century...I love you is quite common and it can be used for broader sense...not every love needs the bed to accompany it... so don't make it all about commitments.. it can be said to show that u hold a position in the sayer's life...

Kaddu said...

DayDreamer:
My mistake. I did think of adding a P.S. in the post... to clarify what kind of "relationships" I meant exactly, but forgot in the end. Let me edit the post now.

Gayathri said...

It is true to a very large extent..today the priorities are diff,.goals are diff..but i still feel there are relationships which uphold the fidelity and trust..

Kaddu said...

Gayathri:
Yupp, I do see some ancient couples still going strong... people from my age group (Read: 30+) mostly... including our ZB here! But for the majority, the once-held-sacred phrase is merely a part of a seduction ploy!

Mahesh Sindbandge said...

Kaddu,

I am here to taste the flavours on your blog.

franjly speaking i like posts written on relationships.... i liked this one too...

Seriously, even i feel i was born in that time when "I Love You" had some meaning..

May be, if you go through archives on my blog, you might notice the same tone in me.

You got a nice blog kaddu :) hence i blogrolled you...

Cheers
Mahesh

Kaddu said...

MS:
Thanks for the visit and the blogroll buddy! :D Will definitely chk out more of ur blog.
Btw, I'm calling you 'MS' here to avoid confusion, as there is another "Mahesh" among my readers. Hope it's ok with u! :)

Mahesh Sindbandge said...

Haha..call me Anubhav( my blog name), i wont mind..

Cheers
Mahesh

Kaddu said...

Anubhav:
Oh cool! 'Anubhav' it is then! :D :p

Jarlin Paul said...

Yes, you are absolutely correct.

When one express Love, it should mean "Promise & Trust", otherwise it doesn't have any value.

This is my first visit to your blog here and I enjoyed reading your posts. Keep writing.

I'm following your blog now. Invite you to my page and leave your comments.

Kaddu said...

Jarlin:
Thanks for the visit and the follow, Jarlin. I just checked out your website. It looks really neat. And you have written posts on some pretty informative topics too! Will be reading more of it... :D

Phoenix said...

That;s so sad right, that it's just a "game" now. one-upmanship, saying this to get that, doing so to expect such, and then when you get bored you just walk off.
Just a game.

And unfortunate are those victimes who get embittered by such experiences and doubt everyone else.

There "are" nice people there, but finding them is a task. They're almost always not the ones most visible, loud and charming in the conventional way in a large crowd.

Kaddu said...

Phoenix:
Thanks for the visit pal! Love your nick name btw... reminds me of Dumbledore!

Yeah, it's become so much like a game... I'm always reminded of chess when it comes to modern "relationships".

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